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Are You Shy?
Do any or all of these statements apply to you?
- I find it very difficult to talk to new people.
- I lack confidence with people.
- I feel very tense and nervous when I try to initiate a conversation
- I have difficulty talking to other people.
- I often tense up and forget what I was about to say when trying to talk to someone new.
- I am especially nervous when talking to someone I would like to date.
- I often replay entire dialogues in my mind, wishing I had said something different.
- People see me as very quiet but I do not want to be.
I hear you.
I was perhaps one of the most painfully shy people you could ever know until sometime in my late 20’s… although at 50, I STILL have to deal with feelings of shyness at times.
Having said that, I now regularly speak in public and actually enjoy it!
This is a picture of the audience at a recent speaking engagement.
Want to know what helped me overcome 90% of those awkward feelings with other people?
Reading and learning and implementing tactics that other people had used successfully.
Here’s one example from acclaimed personal development coach, John Mercer called “How I Destroyed My Shyness And Social Anxiety By Playing Games!”
click here to learn more about John’s strategies.
Guys: Are You Making These First Date Mistakes?
Guys, have you ever wondered why so many of your first dates turn out to be last dates?
It could be that you are making one of more of these classic dating mistakes.
Have you…
- Lied on your profile about height, marital status, age… anything?
- Tried to connect with women who are too young for you?
- Forgotten how to spell?
- Used dirty innuendos?
- Pushed for sex?
- Expected sex?
- Or, on the other extreme, been freakishly shy?
Be honest with yourself and the women you meet about what you want.
Don’t use a mainstream dating site to meet a woman who is looking for a loving relationship and try to make unrealistic demands on a first date.
If you’re just trying to get laid, there are a ton of dating sites specifically for that purpose, like AdultFriendFinder and SexyAds.
For the shy guys, there are a ton of great tutorials out there that will help you learn how to talk to women.
Check out one of the following:
Women: Are You Making These Classic Dating Mistakes?
Ladies, have you ever wondered why so many of your first dates turn out to be last dates?
It could be that you are making one of more of these classic dating mistakes.
On a first date do you…
- Talk about past relationships?
- Dress too provacatively or like Mother Theresa?
- Boast about your big salary?
- Go on and on about your cat?
- Get drunk?
- Become emotional?
- Talk about marriage or babies?
- Expect sex?
- Give mixed messages?
Any and all of these are big no-no’s on a first date.
If you want to see a guy again:
- Dress appropriately for the venue
- Engage him in conversation that interests both
- Refrain from boasting about your salary – that’s pretty tacky
- Don’t gush about cats, babies, weddings and your previous boyfriends
- Be honest. If you don’t like the guy, don’t tell him you’ll see him again.
And for goodness sakes, leave sex out of it.
As many mothers have said, ‘why would you buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?’.
If you feel that you need some help to attract the ideal man and get him to want more, then check out this Insider’s Seduction Advice today!
Cosmic Compatibility – It’s All About The Moon
By Carol Allen
Tip: If you’ve spent a lot of time learning about the signs of the zodiac, it may surprise you to know that your Sun sign and that of the man or men in your life, does not have much to do with how you RELATE.
That’s right – it’s NOT the thing to pay attention to when you want to know about compatibility.
It’s not that it’s a waste of time to learn about the signs, it’s just that there’s A FAR MORE IMPORTANT SIGN to understand when it comes to love…
But it’s NOT your Sun sign, it’s your Moon sign.
In fact, the most amazing compatibility technique in all of astrology comes from the ancient system of India, and it’s based completely on looking at two people’s Moon positions.
To learn more about the power of this information to enlighten your relationships, check out a comprehensive compatibility report called, “The Right Man Report” which utilizes this technique.
To read all about it, and sign up for my free love and astrology newsletter, go here:
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I have a confession to make: when I first started doing astrology readings for a living I was SCARED.
I was incredibly worried that people would want me to be this brilliant oracle.
You know, like that they’d expect me to know every detail of their past, present, and future to such a specific extent that I’d be able to tell them exactly what to do about EVERY area of their lives…
Including things like where to work, who to marry, how many kids to have, and what stocks to buy.
I thought clients would want me to tell them such exact predictions that I’d be responsible for their very existence.
But a funny thing happened…
Soon, I noticed a phenomena that kept occurring over and over with almost every client that walked through my door.
In fact, it happened so much that I basically completely stopped worrying about what I was supposed to tell them.
All my fear vanished.
What was it that kept happening?
A truly amazing thing – instead of clients wanting ME to be this powerful source of massive, detailed information, I couldn’t get a word in edgewise.
They kept doing ALL the talking!
It almost didn’t matter what I said.
They didn’t seem to care what I said – they wanted me to listen to what THEY said!
I just had to nod and smile and make the occasional “mmmm hmmm,” sounds, and they’d leave happy.
I couldn’t believe it.
And soon my fear was replaced by GUILT.
This wasn’t work – this was easy – and most of the time it was fun!
What was it that people were so desperate to talk and talk and talk endlessly about, that they were willing to drive across town for, and pay a total stranger to listen to them yammer on and on about?
You guessed it… boys.
Every astrology “reading” turned into an enormous girl chat about boys… men… love… and what to do to be happy in a relationship.
Pretty soon I figured out that I’d better find something of value to offer, beyond nodding my head and smiling from time to time.
So, for almost a decade I tried to learn all that I could about astrological compatibility.
That was what my customers were clamoring for after all – they wanted to know how to best get along with the men that they loved.
And they were asking for ASTROLOGY.
I wasn’t a therapist (though they tried to turn me into one!).
I am an astrologer, after all.
And sometimes the charts were very helpful.
I could see things like what timing a woman was in, and whether or not it supported her being in a full relationship.
I could predict when she’d marry (no kidding!) and when she’d likely have a big break up.
I could tell her main issues in relationships – if she was too sensitive, bossy, introverted, masculine, or fickle…
I could see who she was attracted to – older or younger, rich or poor, creative or square, and if they’d likely be available, faithful, addictive, or flaky…
But often it felt like my assessment of two charts together (chart compatibility) was vague.
I could see who of the couple made more money, the different ways they communicated, and basic specifics about their personalities.
But the women already knew that stuff.
What I couldn’t see was the very DESTINY of the relationship itself.
I started to get frustrated that I wasn’t being very helpful, even though my clients didn’t seem to mind – again, all they wanted was for me to nod and smile.
But I wanted to HAVE THE ANSWERS. I wanted to KNOW what they should do. I wanted to be a source of REAL CLARITY and UNDERSTANDING.
Soon I started to get bored with readings – not with clients, but with my contribution to the sessions.
I started considering becoming a therapist after all.
I looked into Psychology programs. (But I’d have to take more math classes – something I swore I was done with FOREVER in college – ugh!)
I got scared all over again – not of seeing clients, but of what I was going to do with my life.
Perhaps I’d wasted the better part of a decade studying astrology, only to abandon it…
And then, a miracle occurred.
I went to an astrology conference and I met an amazing man at a lecture. He and I kept both chiming in and participating with the speaker, and we both kept saying essentially the same things.
So, after a while I noticed this guy was very cool – because, hey – he and I kept agreeing.
So we talked at the break and he told me he’d given a class on an often misunderstood, misused compatibility technique that he’d uncovered and taught himself, by studying several books from India in their original (now dead) language that he’d also taught himself.
(Can you say GENIUS?)
He gave me a handout from the class detailing the technique which he explained was based on comparing two people’s MOON CONSTELLATIONS, said his goodbyes, and walked out of the conference hall.
Neither of us knew that in that brief exchange he’d changed my life forever.
I went home and started playing with the technique.
I started using it in readings.
I started sharing the information it revealed with clients.
And soon another amazing thing happened.
They shut up.
They wanted to hear what I had to say.
They hung on my every word.
No longer were my compatibility sessions vague.
Now I could give real, in-depth, specific, comprehensive overviews on exactly how two people would affect each other and FEEL together.
And not just that – now I could see not only how they’d get along, but the actual potential of the relationship to MOVE FORWARD or not, separate from how they got along.
And the best part? It never failed…
I fell so in love with the technique that I tracked down the amazing man who gave me the handout and trained under him for several years.
And when I started trying to reach more women to help them be more successful with the men they loved, I called him up and we figured out a way to make this information available for YOU at your fingertips!
“The Right Man Report” is the result. This lengthy, detailed compatibility report can help you to finally understand your man and your relationship, and just what to do with both.
To order yours now with a seven day, no risk, money-back guarantee, sign up for my newsletter and order yours today:
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Here’s why it’s so cool… It covers fifteen areas of connection (or DISCONNECTION), explaining just what you experience with a man.
(Because sometimes it’s not a compatibility report, it’s an INCOMPATIBILITY REPORT. 
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Things like: if you have the same sensibility and can truly be yourselves of if no matter how much you explain yourself he’ll never get you, if you can easily want the same things or if you’ll have constant obstacles keeping you apart, if you can feel peaceful with him or if his very presence will make you uncomfortable, if you’ll have that “meant to be” feeling, and more…
It takes all the confusion out of your dynamics.
Now you can know why you’re crazy about him but never want to do the same things, why he seems overwhelmed by your emotions, why no matter what you do you can’t have progress, why you feel more loyal, why everything that happens between you is your idea, and on and on…
No longer do you have to wonder if your issues or challenges with him are all your imagination or not.
No longer will you feel like your relationship problems are ALL YOUR FAULT.
Maybe they’re not your fault, or his…
Maybe they’re just how you go together.
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May God and his planets and stars shower you with love!
Carol Allen
How to Find, Meet and Marry a Foreign Bride
For years men have been seeking foreign brides to marry to bring back to the U.S., Canada, Australia and other countries.
Foreign brides are also known as “mail order brides”.
The first step in finding a foreign bride should be to decide in which country your search should begin in, chose a country where you like the culture, the people, the beauty of the women, a place you would like to visit etc., if you prefer Russian women, then by all means go to Russia, if you prefer Latin women go to South America.
Colombian women have a world wide reputation for being some of the most beautiful women in the world, however you have many other countries to choose from.
About the beauty of Latin women, here is how the 2008 Miss Universe contest played out.
• Miss Universe 2008: Miss Venezuela – Daya Mendoza
• 1st Runner-up: Colombia – Taliana Vargas
• 2nd Runner-up: Dominican Republic – Marianne Cruz Gonzalez
There are several ways to find and marry Latin Women, Russian women, Asian women etc.;
1. You can join a full service marriage agency that will set up appointments with
their female clients, a good agency will provide translators etc.
2. Join online matchmakers where you pay a monthly fee to e-mail other members.
3. Place an ad in the local newspaper advertising for a wife.
4. Make some online contacts in the country you prefer, it’s not difficult, then just go on a vacation, you will meet more honest decent women using this method that you will any other method, go to malls, supermarkets, parks, you can meet many women this way, you will meet many non-agency women, many women not listed on dating sites etc. find your lodging, find a translator and your on your way, you can also use method No. 2 and try and meet a few ladies online as a back up and a way to learn about her city, country, and recommendations for lodging etc.
There are also a lot of ways to get scammed by women from any of the listed countries above.
BEWARE, along with the home loving, loyal, sincere, honest women you will meet, you will also meet many scammers. Here is a hint how to avoid a scam from women you meet on the Internet or in person, if they ask for money… run! It seems the older guys wanting a 30+ yr. younger wife just can’t seem to say no, and bam, their money is gone and so is the girlfriend.
If your 50 or 60 yrs. old and wanting a 20 yr. old wife, (don’t laugh, this happens often) ask yourself, “what does this hot young women want with me?” The answer will always be, “a way out of the country and money”.
Traditionally, the age difference for a successful marriage to a foreign wife has been 10 – 15 yrs., that can even be stretched somewhat if the two are more compatible in likes and dislikes, but it may also take longer to find a compatible wife.