Astrology And Love Advice for Women: Are You Incompatible – Or Is It Him?

Tip: If you’ve ever been in love with a man who made you so unsure of your relationship that you slowly went out of your mind, odds are the two of you weren’t astrologically compatible.

Amazingly, your astrological compatibility with a man doesn’t just reveal how you’ll get along…

It also shows if you can have easy, smooth progress as a couple, or if no matter what you do you’ll end up feeling insecure and anxious all the time…

To learn if you and a man have what it takes to ensure your relationship can effortlessly grow and last, check out my free love and astrology newsletters, and get your compatibility report here:

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I was talking to a client of mine the other day and he had an amazing story that I thought you’d appreciate…

Being a man (yes, I talk to men, too!), he usually only consults me about business and has never let me look at his girlfriend’s chart despite the fact that the topic of love and relationships is my specialty.

I’ve begged him to get me her birth information, but he’s always been strangely mum on the topic.

That is until the other day.

It seems they’d broken up – again.

Even though, after two years and two big breakups, she’d finally moved in with him.

Only to call the relationship quits a handful of months later.

Now – if he weren’t one of the smartest men I’ve ever met (and most successful), and if she weren’t one of the nicest women (and most beautiful), this story wouldn’t be such a big deal.

I mean, couples break up and get back together, and break up again all the time.

Right?

But this was an amazing couple – so playful together, so affectionate, so funny – always laughing and enjoying themselves.

He’d helped her with her business, and she’d helped him to transform his relationships with his family.

They were such great people apart, and seemingly so much better together, that it just didn’t make any sense that they wouldn’t be blissfully happy all the time and figure out how to get both of their needs consistently met.

So what was the deal?

I had to know – so I insisted he get me her details and he did – and there it was…

Their compatibility was just about perfect, as anyone would guess.

Except for one little problem…

They have a connection between their Moon constellations called, “misfortune.”

When two people have this combination, it makes it so that their feeling of closeness and harmony is always “herky- jerky.”

One minute everything is fine and they are happy, and the next it’s as though they’ve stepped on a “love landmine” and the relationship itself blows apart.

When a conflict of any kind arises, instead of being able to address the issue at hand, the couple begins to feel so insecure with one another that the entire relationship itself is called into question.

And this is exactly what he described.

They’d be going along just fine, and then it would be as if they’d hit a snag.

Neither of them would even know who’d said or done what – all they’d know is that they suddenly didn’t feel so fine.

And, despite knowing better, they couldn’t seem to contain themselves and hold onto the good feelings they normally had for one another, or behave lovingly toward each other.

Before they knew it, they’d break up and separate, only to wonder what the hell had happened…

When I explained this crazy, misery inducing dynamic to my client, he said, “I feel like I just went to the doctor with a complaint and he ran some tests and said, ‘Yeah, that’s what’s going on with you all right.’”

Which is so wild because that’s exactly what I say – running the compatibility between you and a man is like running a panel of lab tests on your relationship.

Things might “seem” fine, but upon further inquiry, “weak links” that threaten the very vitality of your relationship, and the very health of your happiness as a couple can be uncovered.

Now, you’d think that a connection called, “misfortune” between two people would cause misfortunes to occur in their lives.

Sometimes it does.

Interestingly, Bill and Hillary Clinton have this connection!

And though it can certainly be said that they’ve been an amazing couple of incredible achievement and longevity – they’ve sure had their share of drama…

If you feel like you’re in a relationship with too much drama, why not find out if your compatibility is to blame?

“The Right Man Report” includes this technique that reveals if you and a man have

“misfortune” together or not, as well as fourteen other connections that can make or break even the best of couplings.

Now, it’s not always a total “deal breaker” if you do – it can be enormously helpful just to know what’s at the root of your romantic roller coaster.

There are other combinations that can be every bit as challenging and difficult – and often couples will have not just one big frustration between them, but several…

And “The Right Man Report” reveals it all – and what to do to make the best of things if you STILL want to stay together.

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And may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!

Carol Allen

Cosmic Compatibility – It’s All About The Moon

By Carol Allen

Tip: If you’ve spent a lot of time learning about the signs of the zodiac, it may surprise you to know that your Sun sign and that of the man or men in your life, does not have much to do with how you RELATE.

That’s right – it’s NOT the thing to pay attention to when you want to know about compatibility.

It’s not that it’s a waste of time to learn about the signs, it’s just that there’s A FAR MORE IMPORTANT SIGN to understand when it comes to love…

But it’s NOT your Sun sign, it’s your Moon sign.

In fact, the most amazing compatibility technique in all of astrology comes from the ancient system of India, and it’s based completely on looking at two people’s Moon positions.

To learn more about the power of this information to enlighten your relationships, check out a comprehensive compatibility report called, “The Right Man Report” which utilizes this technique.

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I have a confession to make: when I first started doing astrology readings for a living I was SCARED.

I was incredibly worried that people would want me to be this brilliant oracle.

You know, like that they’d expect me to know every detail of their past, present, and future to such a specific extent that I’d be able to tell them exactly what to do about EVERY area of their lives…

Including things like where to work, who to marry, how many kids to have, and what stocks to buy.

I thought clients would want me to tell them such exact predictions that I’d be responsible for their very existence.

But a funny thing happened…

Soon, I noticed a phenomena that kept occurring over and over with almost every client that walked through my door.

In fact, it happened so much that I basically completely stopped worrying about what I was supposed to tell them.

All my fear vanished.

What was it that kept happening?

A truly amazing thing – instead of clients wanting ME to be this powerful source of massive, detailed information, I couldn’t get a word in edgewise.

They kept doing ALL the talking!

It almost didn’t matter what I said.

They didn’t seem to care what I said – they wanted me to listen to what THEY said!

I just had to nod and smile and make the occasional “mmmm hmmm,” sounds, and they’d leave happy.

I couldn’t believe it.

And soon my fear was replaced by GUILT.

This wasn’t work – this was easy – and most of the time it was fun!

What was it that people were so desperate to talk and talk and talk endlessly about, that they were willing to drive across town for, and pay a total stranger to listen to them yammer on and on about?

You guessed it… boys.

Every astrology “reading” turned into an enormous girl chat about boys… men… love… and what to do to be happy in a relationship.

Pretty soon I figured out that I’d better find something of value to offer, beyond nodding my head and smiling from time to time.

So, for almost a decade I tried to learn all that I could about astrological compatibility.

That was what my customers were clamoring for after all – they wanted to know how to best get along with the men that they loved.

And they were asking for ASTROLOGY.

I wasn’t a therapist (though they tried to turn me into one!).

I am an astrologer, after all.

And sometimes the charts were very helpful.

I could see things like what timing a woman was in, and whether or not it supported her being in a full relationship.

I could predict when she’d marry (no kidding!) and when she’d likely have a big break up.

I could tell her main issues in relationships – if she was too sensitive, bossy, introverted, masculine, or fickle…

I could see who she was attracted to – older or younger, rich or poor, creative or square, and if they’d likely be available, faithful, addictive, or flaky…

But often it felt like my assessment of two charts together (chart compatibility) was vague.

I could see who of the couple made more money, the different ways they communicated, and basic specifics about their personalities.

But the women already knew that stuff.

What I couldn’t see was the very DESTINY of the relationship itself.

I started to get frustrated that I wasn’t being very helpful, even though my clients didn’t seem to mind – again, all they wanted was for me to nod and smile.

But I wanted to HAVE THE ANSWERS. I wanted to KNOW what they should do. I wanted to be a source of REAL CLARITY and UNDERSTANDING.

Soon I started to get bored with readings – not with clients, but with my contribution to the sessions.

I started considering becoming a therapist after all.

I looked into Psychology programs. (But I’d have to take more math classes – something I swore I was done with FOREVER in college – ugh!)

I got scared all over again – not of seeing clients, but of what I was going to do with my life.

Perhaps I’d wasted the better part of a decade studying astrology, only to abandon it…

And then, a miracle occurred.

I went to an astrology conference and I met an amazing man at a lecture. He and I kept both chiming in and participating with the speaker, and we both kept saying essentially the same things.

So, after a while I noticed this guy was very cool – because, hey – he and I kept agreeing.

So we talked at the break and he told me he’d given a class on an often misunderstood, misused compatibility technique that he’d uncovered and taught himself, by studying several books from India in their original (now dead) language that he’d also taught himself.

(Can you say GENIUS?)

He gave me a handout from the class detailing the technique which he explained was based on comparing two people’s MOON CONSTELLATIONS, said his goodbyes, and walked out of the conference hall.

Neither of us knew that in that brief exchange he’d changed my life forever.

I went home and started playing with the technique.

I started using it in readings.

I started sharing the information it revealed with clients.

And soon another amazing thing happened.

They shut up.

They wanted to hear what I had to say.

They hung on my every word.

No longer were my compatibility sessions vague.

Now I could give real, in-depth, specific, comprehensive overviews on exactly how two people would affect each other and FEEL together.

And not just that – now I could see not only how they’d get along, but the actual potential of the relationship to MOVE FORWARD or not, separate from how they got along.

And the best part? It never failed…

I fell so in love with the technique that I tracked down the amazing man who gave me the handout and trained under him for several years.

And when I started trying to reach more women to help them be more successful with the men they loved, I called him up and we figured out a way to make this information available for YOU at your fingertips!

“The Right Man Report” is the result. This lengthy, detailed compatibility report can help you to finally understand your man and your relationship, and just what to do with both.

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Here’s why it’s so cool… It covers fifteen areas of connection (or DISCONNECTION), explaining just what you experience with a man.

(Because sometimes it’s not a compatibility report, it’s an INCOMPATIBILITY REPORT. )

Things like: if you have the same sensibility and can truly be yourselves of if no matter how much you explain yourself he’ll never get you, if you can easily want the same things or if you’ll have constant obstacles keeping you apart, if you can feel peaceful with him or if his very presence will make you uncomfortable, if you’ll have that “meant to be” feeling, and more…

It takes all the confusion out of your dynamics.

Now you can know why you’re crazy about him but never want to do the same things, why he seems overwhelmed by your emotions, why no matter what you do you can’t have progress, why you feel more loyal, why everything that happens between you is your idea, and on and on…

No longer do you have to wonder if your issues or challenges with him are all your imagination or not.

No longer will you feel like your relationship problems are ALL YOUR FAULT.

Maybe they’re not your fault, or his…

Maybe they’re just how you go together.

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May God and his planets and stars shower you with love!

Carol Allen

Astrology And Love Advice for Women: How To Know If He’s All Right Or All WrongAstrology, Carol Allen, Compatibility

Tip: The most important thing in any relationship is how you FEEL with that person.

But there’s just one little problem – your feelings constantly CHANGE, and may be LYING to you…

They can also BIND you to someone you FEEL you’re supposed to be with but who only leaves you feeling bad, or keep you from feeling connected to the man who would treat you well.

So, what’s a girl to do?

Check out the stars, of course!

To learn about an amazing compatibility report that’s based on an astonishing technique that’s almost as old as the stars themselves to see if a relationship can make you feel good without costing you your heart and soul, check out my free love and astrology newsletters here:

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Technology is such a great thing.

If it weren’t for technology, we’d have no way to communicate like this…

Okay, if you lived within a few miles of me, it’s true that I COULD send out smoke signals, or homing pigeons with messages tied to their feet, or magical owls with personal letters to you like in the Harry Potter books and movies, but the likelihood is we’d never connect at all.

Now, years ago I actually sat on my floor in my living room and stapled and stuffed newsletters into envelopes, labeled and stamped them, and lugged them down to the post office. That was a lot of work! And you can bet I didn’t send them out every few days – it was every few months.

When email came along I couldn’t believe how easy it was to stay in touch with people.

In a matter of moments I could contact thousands of people at a time…

It’s crazy, but in the Vedas (some of the ancient spiritual books of India, from which comes the system of astrology I practice and keep writing to you about) it talks about the different cycles of time here on planet earth.

Right now our little ball of dirt is in a tough cycle (you’ve probably noticed) but also a time of magic.

And I gotta tell ya – computers are magical.

(As are televisions, and cars, and airplanes, and washing machines…)

Take for example, these compatibility reports I’ve been blathering about now for months.

When I first decided to offer them as a way for women to check to see how they’d feel in a specific relationship with a specific man, I wasn’t sure what to expect.

The idea was for the reports to make it easy for a woman to have the answers she needed without having to contact a professional astrologer like me, while getting that caliber of advice and information.

A good idea – but could it actually work?

Could technology actually replace face or phone time with Yours Truly?

(And would that really be a good thing?)

Well, I’m happy to say that I can be outsourced after all!

Feedback from real live women who’ve tried out The Right Man Report has been really great, and I’m actually very happy that this knowledge can be offered in this magical way…

(So that I can reach more of you for a fraction of your time and moolachki. You know – your cabbage… )

Just this week I’ve received some great letters about people’s results that have helped me to feel ever more grateful to technology, so here are a couple:

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Carol,

What a relief too look at all of this in reality; your report was wonderful. It really was accurate. It’s like a burden is lifted off our shoulders when you realize how discombulated it is the way people have traditionally looked at composites and given the whole relationship over to that… I have been following astrology like that for 17 yrs. and you are right!!

best to you,

Susan

Isn’t that crazy? Thanks, Susan!

When Susan says, “looking at composites” she’s talking about a chart created between two charts, that reveals the destiny of that relationship.

This is a Western astrology technique, and I’ve actually found it to be pretty darn accurate.

Astrology is soooooo vast and wonderful and full of endlessly helpful tricks and techniques.

It’s just that Susan, being a longtime student of astrology, GETS IT…

For relationships, there’s NOTHING like the the technique used in The Right Man Report.

For years I used composites, and what’s called “synastry” which is when you overlay two charts on top of each other and look to how the different planets and houses between two people connect to tell you about their relationship – and they work.

But the fifteen steps of The Right Man Report blow that stuff out of the water…

In fact, I’ve had many other astrologers contact me utterly mystified about their own relationships, not understanding why they are the way that they are.

And until I learned how to accurately apply this ancient, often confused wisdom, I didn’t have much new to tell them of value.

It was like being a doctor without being able to run blood tests. I could look in their ears, and listen to their heart, but I couldn’t check their liver fat levels, or their cholesterol, or their triglycerides.

In fact, until there was such a thing as blood tests, doctors had no way to know what was going on with such aspects of a person’s health, and so couldn’t tell their patients what to do, what to avoid, or even what was wrong with them.

It’s like that. The Right Man Report is like doing a blood lab workup for your relationship.

Or a pap smear…

Or a mammogram.

You get where I’m going here.

So, most other astrologers don’t know this technique.

Why do I? Because the best thing in my chart is the 9th house, which gives the best teachers, mentors, and access to THE TRUTH.

Which comes in handy in my particular field of study…

Now, sometimes I get bad feedback on The Right Man Report. Anyone who orders one can keep it and not be charged a dime if they just notify me and say, “Thanks, but no thanks.”

It’s been so nice to discover that very few people actually want their money back.

But I’ve noticed a pattern with those that do – most of their reports that tell them they’re in a difficult relationship.

Gulp.

In other words, they don’t like BAD NEWS.

(And really, who can blame them?)

The hardest thing about my job is delivering bad news, whether it’s the REAL me, or the technical me!

(At least if you’re sitting in my office, I can hand you a Kleenex tissue, and we can go make margaritas in my kitchen after the session…)

But here’s why I got over hating delivering bad news long ago.

It’s actually a HUGE relief to people to discover that whatever isn’t working in their life perhaps isn’t all THEIR FAULT.

And that’s how it works with compatibility.

Sometimes you can’t make a square peg fit into a round hole… (unless, of course, the peg is much smaller than the hole, but I’m getting off point).

And I learned LONG AGO that knowing such things is EVERY BIT as valuable as getting a lot of great news that makes you wanna do the happy dance.

And I’ve actually found that sometimes clients appreciate their bad news…

Take for example this second letter:

Dear Carol,

Thank you for the Vedic reading…it seems to be very accurate… It began with the caveat that we were both antisocial and that it boded ill for Relationship. That all the favorable points, of which there were many [scoring high in Wavelength dept.] would only occasionally emerge in the face of the Moon stresses. The entire profile seemed so right on…

I just don’t want it to be!

I guess I am asking you, are the antisocial Moons insurmountable? What advice would you give me re: this? I am going to recommend your service to others as this has been most eye-opening.

Sincerely,

Marsha

Marsha also gets it. I LOVE working with people who can admit things like this, and want to know the truth.

Yay Marsha!

As for her question as to the weak links in the report being insurmountable – here’s what I think…

I have found after doing this work for seventeen years, and having many clients come to me year after year after year – some for over a decade – that this stuff works.

And there’s not a lot we can do to change our stripes.

That said, I’m also a big believer in the power of LOVE and the possibility for MIRACLES.

My life is full of them!

So, here’s what I tell women every day.

CHARTS SHMARTS.

If you feel you MUST do something, then do it.

If you feel a huge connection to a man, but your report says you’ll have huge challenges but you don’t want to give him up – then DON’T.

The reports were not designed to tell you who to marry or break up with.

They are to help you SEE what your dynamics are with another human being with OPEN EYES.

I want them to INFORM your decisions, not make them for you.

I want them to help you to ZOOM OUT and see a relationship from a higher perspective, and be more of a witness to it all, so you can then take the appropriate action.

As for what I’d advise Marsha – my best advice would be to tell her to become a RELATIONSHIP SAVANT.

Relationship savants are rare.

These are incredibly healthy, wise, evolved people who have grown beyond their own wounds and egos, to be able to have a great relationship despite problems and difficulties.

These are the FEW clients that I’ve worked with over the years who have had very hard dynamics in their “Right Man Report” with a man, and they KNEW IT, but they weren’t caught up in the drama of it all.

In fact, they were happy with him anyway, and they, “let love rule.”

How did they do it?

What was their secret?

I don’t know exactly, but ALL of them had fantastic relationship skills.

They inspired me to learn all that I could about how to DO RELATIONSHIPS.

And I learned amazing things…

I learned that as much as fifty percent of all couples who end up divorced would NOT have ended up divorced, if they just took a weekend seminar with one of the top marriage institutes in the world (the Gottman Institute of Seattle, Washington) and learned good relationship skills.

I learned that there are RULES to relationships and that if you follow the rules, relationships tend to work out.

I learned that even bad relationships can become better, good ones can become great, and great ones can become transcendent – if at least ONE person learns how to lead the way to love.

So I put the best of what I learned onto a double CD set called, “Soulmate Secrets – The Essential Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use To Stay Close And Connected.”

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And it covers all you need to know to be that rare, special, truly magical thing – a relationship savant!

So Marsha – that’s what I’d do.

And then see how “antisocial” you guys feel.

You owe it to yourself to find out.

Because you deserve to have love be worth it – not necessarily easy – but worth it.