No matter what we say in our profiles – men only look at our pictures and move on. If we are not small enough, or thin enough, or pretty enough, or blonde enough, etc. etc. they will not respond to our emails.

I cancelled eHarmony about 6 months ago because in 2 years time, I never received one single communication from a man. NOT ONE! So much for the 29 dimensions of compatibility. These men looked at my picture and kept right on going. I contacted plenty of men first and they all “closed match” on me without answering. I’ve been on Match.com for 2 years now and have had only 1 date from that website. I’ve been on so many other sites and have since cancelled them because the pool of bachelors was horrible. So about 1 month ago I decided to join a couple of BBW sites, and to my absolutely surprise, the same stuff happens on these sites as well. There are hardly any men on these sites in my area in the first place.

Men do not read your profile to see what you have to say about yourself. They are only interested in your picture and if you are pretty enough for them. TO date, I have contacted about 12+ men on these BBW sites, and only 1 of them responded back (and he turned out to be sex freak).

I have to say it is extremely depressing to be rejected day after day after day. It makes me want to scream!