Attraction Tactics

Many of us need a little help to understand what makes us attractive to potential partners. You’ll find attraction tactics and seduction strategies here.

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5 Pointers for Perfect Opening Lines

Guy walks into a bar. Sits down next to a pretty girl and pulls out a pack of cigarettes.

“Here,” he says. “For you.”

“No, thanks,” she says. “I don’t smoke.”

“That’s okay—these aren’t cigarettes.”

He pulls out a red silk thong.

“I’d love to see you in this,” he says with a wink. He drops the thong, with his name and number attached, on the bar and walks to the jukebox.

So… where’s THAT going to go?

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Top 4 First Date Do’s and Don’ts

So you’ve made contact with a very interesting person online, but you’ve been putting off meeting face-to-face. Things are fine as they are, you tell yourself. I’ll feel too much pressure if we actually meet; we’ll have to decide to keep seeing each other or not. What if only one of us wants to? Or neither of us? It’s risky, and it jeopardizes our current connection.

Reality check! Maybe both of you will decide to see each other again, and maybe this is the match you’ve been waiting for.

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Are You Shy?

Do any or all of these statements apply to you?

I find it very difficult to talk to new people.
I lack confidence with people.
I feel very tense and nervous when I try to initiate a conversation
I have difficulty talking to other people.
I often tense up and forget what I was about to say when trying to talk to someone new.
I am especially nervous when talking to someone I would like to date.
I often replay entire dialogues in my mind, wishing I had said something different.
People see me as very quiet but I do not want to be.

I hear you.

I was perhaps one of the most painfully shy people you could ever know until sometime in my late 20’s… although at 50, I STILL have to deal with feelings of shyness at times.

Having said that, I now regularly speak in public and actually enjoy it!
This is a picture of the audience at a recent speaking engagement.

Want to know what helped me overcome 90% of those awkward feelings with other people?

Reading and learning and implementing tactics that other people had used successfully.

Here’s one example from acclaimed personal development coach, John Mercer called “How I Destroyed My Shyness And Social Anxiety By Playing Games!”

click here to learn more about John’s strategies.

Guys: Are You Making These First Date Mistakes?

Guys, have you ever wondered why so many of your first dates turn out to be last dates?

It could be that you are making one of more of these classic dating mistakes.

Have you…
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Women: Are You Making These Classic Dating Mistakes?

Ladies, have you ever wondered why so many of your first dates turn out to be last dates?

It could be that you are making one of more of these classic dating mistakes.

On a first date do you…
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